What Happens to Your Pet’s Grave When You Move?
The average American moves over 11 times in their lifetime, often for work, family, or housing costs (U.S. Census Bureau, 2023). That means even the most well-intentioned backyard grave may one day be left behind. For many families, the emotional toll of abandoning a pet’s final resting place can be unexpectedly intense—and irreversible.
Running Out of Room: Why Burial Isn’t a Sustainable Option
The truth is, burial takes up space most households can’t afford to give. In high-density areas, zoning restrictions or HOA policies often prohibit backyard burials altogether. Even in rural communities, land use is shifting: small farms are being subdivided into residential lots, and land that once seemed private and permanent can be sold, rezoned, or developed.
Is Backyard Pet Burial Legal? What You Need to Know
Laws governing pet burial vary not only from state to state, but sometimes by county or city. In many regions, home burial is only allowed under strict conditions—if it’s allowed at all. For instance, some states require the burial site to be a minimum distance from water sources, wells, or inhabited structures. Others mandate a minimum depth, typically around three to five feet, to prevent scavenging and environmental exposure
How Backyard Pet Burial Can Harm Wildlife in the Eastern Great Plains
One major concern is the exposure of scavengers to euthanasia drugs like pentobarbital. These drugs remain active in the bodies of buried animals for months and can be lethal to any animal that digs them up. In Fargo and nearby areas, scavengers like red foxes, coyotes, raccoons, and domestic dogs are all known to investigate disturbed soil. Rural farms often attract these animals, increasing the risk of exposure in agricultural zones (North Dakota Game and Fish Department, 2022).
Why Backyard Pet Burial May Harm the Environment
When a pet is buried after euthanasia, residual chemicals—especially pentobarbital, a barbiturate used in nearly all euthanasia procedures—can remain in the body. Over time, these chemicals can leach into soil and groundwater, potentially contaminating local water supplies or harming wildlife that may come into contact with the remains.
How Space Supports Grief Processing (part 4 of 6)
According to color psychology, different hues evoke different emotional responses. Soft greens, blues, and yellows, for example, have been shown to create a calming effect, reduce stress, and promote emotional healing (Elliot & Maier, 2014). While different hues of colors create different feelings from different audiences, often influenced by context and culture, one can often come to agreement with others about shared interpretations of colors
Understanding Convenience Euthanasia: A Delicate Topic in Pet Care
Before we begin…
This is an extremely difficult subject to explore and reducing it to a binary of good/bad is not helpful. The intention, here, is to open an exploration of perspectives. Around 66% of US households identify as having a pet - that’s about 87 million American families (Insurance Information Institute, 2023), and all of those families have adopted or purchased a pet for their own reasons. At some point, almost all of those families will need to say “goodbye” to their animal. This is not coming from a place of judgement.
Winter’s Chill: How Colder Weather Unveils Discomfort in Aging Pets
As temperatures plummet, the impact of cold weather on pets, especially aging or ailing ones, becomes increasingly evident. Cold can exacerbate existing conditions, revealing discomfort that might have otherwise gone unnoticed. This seasonal shift prompts many pet owners to take a closer look at their animals’ health, often resulting in significant decisions about their care.
Why Do Euthanasia Requests Spike in Veterinary Clinics During the Holidays?
Veterinary clinics often report an increase in euthanasia requests during November and December. While scientific studies on this trend are limited, several factors are widely believed to contribute to this seasonal pattern…
Choosing the Right Urn: Material, Style, and Personalization
When selecting an urn, the material is one of the most important factors to consider. Traditional urns are often made from materials like wood, metal, or ceramic, but for those concerned about the environment, there are greener options available. Biodegradable urns, made from sustainable materials like bamboo, recycled paper, or salt, are designed to break down naturally over time, reducing their environmental footprint (Funeral Consumer Alliance, 2018). These eco-friendly urns are ideal for water burials or natural burial sites, as they return the remains to the earth without harming the ecosystem.
A Brief History of Urns: From Ancient Traditions to Modern Memorials
One of the earliest known uses of urns dates back to the Bronze Age (3300-1200 BCE), where archaeological findings reveal that people from ancient China, Greece, and Rome used urns to hold cremated remains. In ancient Greece, urns, or lekythos, were used in funeral rites and often adorned with depictions of mourning scenes or mythological stories
Environmental and Health Concerns of Modern U.S. Burial Practices
Modern U.S. burial practices, though steeped in cultural and religious traditions, carry a significant environmental burden. Traditional in-ground burials often involve embalming, the use of non-biodegradable caskets, and the allocation of vast tracts of land for cemeteries, all of which raise serious environmental concerns. Embalming fluid, which commonly contains formaldehyde, presents a particularly troubling issue. Formaldehyde is a known carcinogen, and its seepage into the soil from buried bodies can contaminate groundwater, posing long-term public health risks.